12 Things More Dangerous Than Cheating (Affair)

MASSAPEDIA NEWS - The affair is often referred to as acts that can destroy a relationship. Often, having an affair was regarded as a sin unforgivable.

When in fact there are many positions that could trigger the breakup of a relationship, in addition to infidelity. If there were 12 small behaviors that are often invisible and unconscious do in a relationship.

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The attitude was considered minor quarrels that often trigger a large and harm the relationship. Here are 12 attitude that often triggers the end of a relationship :

1. Lying and hide something from your partner

While you do it for love or keep the feeling of the couple, to hide something from your partner can grow bigger problem. From there will arise distrust that led to damage relations. "You should be able to tell everything to your spouse. If you hide something, then it will hurt them. We recommend that you never plan to hide anything," wrote Esquire.com.

2. Holding the feeling of affection for the couple

Whether it's love in the form of touch, ask the things that are personal, or help each other when experiencing problems; not able to show that all can cause doubt on the relationship.

3. Saving the hatred

Vox Meretricis wrote, "when the hatred was revealed, then the already damaged the relationship." Often fostered hatred of silence and ended in an explosion that destroys relationships.

4. Lack of communication

Lack of communication can not only mean the absence of short messages sent daily routine. Inability to tell you about things that are heart wrenching also be a cause of the problem.

5. Stubbornness about one thing

This is another form of refusing to compromise on one thing. If you love someone, you must be willing to compromise. Couples who just want to hear his opinion basically relate only to himself.

6. Arguing about things in general, daily habits and work

The fuss about whose turn it was taking out the trash is often regarded as a small thing. But actually, when it is done within a period of time, then the commotion can turn into war.

7. Condescension

Issuing expressions that can lower a couple is just one way to show one side is stronger than the other. Unbalanced force that is called worse than the affair. The reason is, that attitude can make one party feels hurt mentally, even after the relationship is over.

8. Defending the relationship was no longer comfortable

Whether it's because you do not want to disappoint the family if your relationship with the couple breaking up, or maybe because you already have travel plans a few months away, defend to remain in a relationship that are no longer comfortable will only foster resentment.

9. Manipulation

Feelings have been manipulated by the couple becomes very difficult to realize by someone. Even if in the end realized, those who manipulated will lose confidence.

10. Jealousy

Although not absolutely no affair, but jealousy can trigger suspicion that will damage the relationship.

11. Wrongly to show the character in the beginning of the relationship

Says not looking for a serious relationship, but you serve someone solicitation, certainly can create a relationship did not last long. The good, you instantly show your character when starting a new relationship.

12. Stay with because it has a dependency

Stay together because you already depend to a spouse, or simply do not want to single status, considered to induce a feeling disturbed every day. The reason is, when it certainly is no more chemistry with each other.